Joan began life in Queensbury, a small village in the West Riding of Yorkshire that is home of the Black Dyke Mills and geographically, one of the highest parishes in England. The only one of her siblings to be born there, her father’s armed forces posting had obliged her parents to move away from London but she always had a Yorkshire woman’s no-nonsense approach to life. The youngest of eight, she was not a strong child and doctors had expressed concern about her long-term health prospects but the Lodge family were made of sterner stuff; she was to live for 99 years.
From an early age, she showed signs of remarkable intellect despite her physical limitations. When her sister Florrie started school at the age of five, Joan (two years younger) wanted to go as well. The local school accepted her and thus began an outstanding scholastic evolution. She won a place at Thornton Grammar School, on the outskirts of Bradford, where she excelled in all subjects but particularly, classics and languages in which, throughout her grammar school education, she was awarded prizes every year.
In order to get to school each day, Joan had to walk down a steep hill to the Queensbury Railway Station and catch a train to Thornton. This wasn’t so bad, she said, but the walk back up the hill with all her schoolbooks at the end of the day was tiring for a girl of small stature and sometimes, naughty boys would steal her satchel and run off with it, leaving it to be recovered from nearby bushes. One day, one of the older boys from the school who travelled the same route saw this happen, chased the younger boys off and thereafter, took on the role of informal protector and carried her satchel up the hill for her every afternoon – she wasn’t teased again after that!
She matriculated with distinction at thirteen but remained in school until she entered Birmingham University in 1938. She was supported through her grammar school years and degree by her older sisters, Amy and Maud, who worked in the Black Dyke Mills to ensure that there were funds for her to benefit from the best education possible. Their sacrifices were amply repaid as she graduated in June 1941 with an excellent upper second Batchelor of Arts Honours degree in French Language and Literature.
She was a lifelong member of Birmingham’s University House Society and remained in contact with friends from those days until she was in her final years.
Joan’s university career took place against a backdrop of hardship and then, two years before she graduated, W.W.II broke out. This prevented her from spending time studying her subject at first hand whilst an undergraduate but when the war was over, she went to Paris where she spent an extremely enjoyable year teaching at the Collège Franco-Brittanique and taking classes at the Sorbonne, where her knowledge of French, Latin and Greek were a necessary prerequisite. Displaying a previously unsuspected talent, she also joined ‘The English Players’, with whom she gave her Olivia in Twelfth Night - or ‘Le Nuit des Rois’, as the programme has it - at venues across Paris.
Upon her return, she joined the teaching profession and committed her life to the education of a new generation. For Joan, teaching was a vocation and this dedication set the pace and tenor for the rest of her life.
Amongst her teaching posts in England, she was Senior Mistress at Upper Chine School on the Isle of Wight, where three of her married sisters had settled in the 1940’s and where she returned regularly to visit them.
In 1961, she left Upper Chine to take up her last full-time position at another independent boarding school for girls, Braeside School in Buckhurst Hill, Essex. Appointed by the school founder as the first Headmistress, her life and times at Braeside were very happy. She always said that before her marriage, she had hundreds of daughters and she set high standards for them to aspire to whilst running a well-disciplined establishment.
She was introduced to her late husband, John, a widower, through a friend of the family and they married in 1968. Joan left her beloved Braeside at the end of the school year and moved into her husband’s home in Trowbridge, Wiltshire where they enjoyed 32 years of happy married life together.
Once married, she semi-retired but regularly provided supply cover at the Trowbridge Boys’ High School, which was next door to her new home and, until it closed in 1980, the Fitzmaurice Grammar School in Bradford-on-Avon, where the pupils must have thought her part of the family whose name it bore.
Before their marriage, John was an active member of the Rotarians and Joan entered into the life of the local, national and international Rotary movement with the same enthusiasm and flair as she showed for all her chosen pursuits. After being heavily involved in the Trowbridge Inner Wheel, serving in several committee positions as well as District Chair and member of the National Committee, Joan became the National President of the Association of Inner Wheel Clubs of Great Britain in 1990.
Together they travelled the world as GB&I ambassadors for Rotary and Inner Wheel in addition to taking some adventurous holidays on far-flung continents. Joan always returned home with a wealth of new experiences and stories to share, including, after a European trip, how her Latin and Greek had served her well in communicating with local people in Italy and Greece – not a problem she ever had when travelling in France!
In her new domestic role, she became a very accomplished cook and enjoyed the opportunities that the Rotary and Inner Wheel clubs offered to entertain and to host charity events. With a large garden now at her disposal, she and John together managed it to produce an impressive selection of both vegetables and blooms, the latter used often for another of her skills - flower arranging.
Already a skilful seamstress, she shone when faced with the annual challenge of the Inner Wheel carnival float, designing and making accurate period costumes that ranged in time from the Tudors to the ‘20’s. She also joined an embroidery class and found that she both enjoyed and excelled at this creative hobby, creating work that won her both plaudits and prizes. On acquiring a knitting machine, she extended her abilities further and was self-taught, producing lovely pieces for herself, John and other family members as well as supporting the various Fayres and sales connected to her charitable interests.
Joan’s involvement with Holy Trinity Church was very important to her during her years in Trowbridge. She was, with John, a regular member of the congregation and served as Lay Vice Chairman of the Parochial Church Council. Such was her commitment to the Grade II* listed building that she successfully applied to charities, trusts and the Heritage Lottery Fund, raising thousands of pounds for essential repairs and securing the future of the stained glass windows, in particular two in the North Transept Wall that were made by Morris & Co., Westminster and dedicated in 1938.
Following John’s death in 2000, her social circle gradually dwindled and she moved to a co-housing apartment Wokingham in 2006 to be nearer her niece Margaret, to whom she was particularly close, and her stepson Jonathan. Sadly, after a few years her health had deteriorated and in 2009 she moved to assisted living in Weybridge and latterly, in East Molesey. Although in her final months she often found it challenging to find the right words in her native language, she was able to articulate her views in French, a linguist to the very end.
She has outlived all of her siblings, though her sisters all lived well into their 90th decade, and leaves behind two stepchildren, Jonathan and Angela, three grandchildren and two great grandchildren as well as nieces and nephews from her own family. She was a significant influence in shaping many lives and her presence will be sadly missed.
Jon Fitzmaurice OBE
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